It often happens to us that we feel deeply broken inside, a profound sense of loneliness consumes us, and it seems as though something is terribly wrong in our lives. But what’s the reason behind this? Most of the time, we can’t figure it out.
This phase comes into everyone’s life, and I’m sure it has visited yours too. When such moments strike unexpectedly, they leave us feeling utterly hopeless, lost, and unsure of how to deal with the situation. But today, let me assure you—this might be the last time you feel this way.
Why? Because today, I’m going to share some harsh truths about life that, once understood, have the potential to transform it entirely. Some of what I say might sting a little, but I promise you—these next few minutes could be life-changing for યૂ😊
Truth #1: “Selfishness”
This is one of the harshest truths of the world, one that everyone finds bitter. And if you dare to say it out loud, chances are it will offend people. But the fact remains—we all carry selfishness within us. Most of us think primarily about our own benefit, ensuring we achieve our goals, even if it means someone else has to bear the cost.
Take an employee, for instance. They often wish for less work and more pay. On the flip side, a boss wants their employee to do as much work as possible for the least salary. It’s human nature. Even animals, when they hunt, focus solely on feeding themselves. They don’t pause to consider that the prey might have a family, or the pain their act might cause.
When we understand this truth directly or indirectly, it begs a question: why do we still pin our hopes for success or a better future on others? Why do we assume someone will step in to support us, help us in every aspect, and push us forward?
In today’s world, such people are almost nonexistent—those who genuinely prioritize solving your problems. Everyone is overwhelmed with their own struggles and challenges. So, building your life on the hope that someone else will support you isn’t just naive—it’s setting yourself up for disappointment.
No matter how kind someone is, they’re not going to take full responsibility for supporting you in everything. The sooner you accept this reality, the better. Instead, focus on becoming self-reliant. Don’t let others think you’re surviving on their support. True strength lies in standing on your own feet and taking charge of your life without expecting someone else to carry you forward.
Truth #2: “The Beginning”
Who doesn’t want to be successful in life? Ask anyone, and the answer will always be “yes.” Yet, many people keep waiting for the “perfect time” to begin their journey toward success—a time they’re not even sure will ever come. They wait for a moment when there are no problems, no challenges, and everything aligns perfectly, allowing them to pursue their goals with ease.
But there’s an old saying: The hardest part of any task is to start. The moment you decide to work toward your goal, your mind often resists. It resists because starting means stepping out of your comfort zone and putting in extra effort—something your mind naturally avoids.
Here’s the thing, though—when you finally push through and start, the task never feels as daunting as you thought. Once you begin, the work starts to flow, and you might even think, “Why didn’t I start this sooner?”
You’re not alone in this struggle. Many people face the same dilemma. The difference is that those who understand this truth take the first step, no matter how small it is. That first step is what changes everything. Slowly but surely, their mind, their habits, and even their personality adapt to this new approach. And those small beginnings eventually turn into significant successes.
So, the next time you feel reluctant to start something, remind yourself that it’s your mind resisting change. The key is to trick it—start small, but start anyway. Even a tiny step forward can break the inertia and lead you toward your goal.
Truth #3: “Solitude”
An average bus has about 50 seats—affordable, accessible to everyone. On the other hand, a premium car like a Lamborghini or Bugatti, worth millions, has just two seats. Isn’t that intriguing?
And that’s the raw truth about success. The path to success isn’t crowded; it’s lonely. As you climb higher, your social circle shrinks. People start drifting away, and many can’t come to terms with this reality.
When you notice your loved ones or close friends moving away, it can create unease. You might start to wonder, “Am I going to end up alone?” This fear is especially pronounced in your teenage years or early twenties when the idea of losing close connections feels almost unbearable.
But take a moment. Pause and reflect
This phase is a natural part of life. Everyone experiences it at some point. It’s a time when those close to you begin to drift away, either due to circumstances or choices. And this is where you must learn to accept the truth.
Why not prepare for it in advance?
Learn to enjoy your own company. Being surrounded by people doesn’t always guarantee happiness. True happiness comes from being at peace with yourself.
Remember, success doesn’t require a crowd—it demands focus.
So, if your social circle feels smaller today, don’t be disheartened. It’s a sign you’re on the right path. The truly great minds—the ones filled with rich thoughts and ideas—are never truly alone.
The sooner you understand this, the easier it will be to embrace the reality of solitude and transform it into your strength.
Truth #4: Face the Truth!
Imagine you’re in a dense forest, and suddenly, a lion appears right in front of you. Would you believe that the lion won’t attack you just because you’re harmless?
Absolutely not!
The moment it senses your presence, it will pounce without a second thought.
Now think about this—doesn’t the same thing happen in real life? Just because you’re kind, gentle, and loving toward everyone doesn’t mean the world will treat you the same way.
Here’s the hard truth: even when you do good for others, there are times you’ll get nothing but negativity in return.
But whose fault is it, really?
The answer lies within us.
We humans have a significant weakness—instant gratification.
When we do something good, we expect immediate rewards. And if those rewards don’t come, we become restless.
“Why is this happening to me? I was so good to them!” we complain.
But think about it—why should others see things the way we do? Everyone has a different perspective, a unique way of seeing the world.
Expecting that others will think and act as we do is our misunderstanding.
So stop holding high expectations from others. Instead, start expecting more from yourself.
Do good, not because you want something in return, but because it’s a part of who you are.
Remember, true peace comes when you shift your focus from others to yourself.
This one truth can simplify your life in unimaginable ways.
Truth Number 5 : Understand Your Relationships
Think about it—there are certain relationships in your life that you value more than they deserve. Be it a friendship or a romantic relationship, you let those people know how special they are and how you fear losing them.
But here’s where the story changes.
As soon as they realize you fear losing them, they start taking advantage of you.
They’ll talk down to you when they feel like it.
They’ll behave in ways that hurt you.
Why? Because they know you won’t walk away, no matter what.
It stings, doesn’t it? But it’s the truth.
If you have toxic people in your life, there’s only one choice—walk away.
These people exploit your emotions, and the effects aren’t just temporary. They can impact your mental health for years to come.
Understand this: you can’t please everyone.
Some will celebrate your success, while others will envy it.
So take a close look at your circle. The ones who genuinely support you and have pure intentions—those are your real friends.
Recognize their habits. They’ll never wish you harm.
Here’s a small piece of advice:
If you want to test someone’s loyalty, ask for their help during your toughest times. Those who stand by you are your true friends.
Always remember, nurture your relationships, but never at the cost of your self-respect.
Stay with people who value you, and let go of those who only bring you pain.
Life is too short to waste it on the wrong people.
Truth Number 6: Understand Pain and Learn From It
When bad times strike—
When someone you love passes away,
When a sudden breakup shatters you,
Or when you face a massive financial setback…
The first question that comes to your mind is:
“Why me, God? Why is this happening to me?”
We act as if pain and suffering are exclusive to us, as if we’re the only ones who have ever experienced such heartbreak. But here’s the bitter truth we all struggle to accept:
Your pain is not unique.
The struggles you face, the heartbreak you endure, others have faced far worse.
Every human being’s life has ups and downs, regardless of whether they’re poor or rich. Sorrow and joy knock on everyone’s door.
Now think about it—when someone shares their experience, their struggles, doesn’t it open your eyes?
You realize the pain you thought was so unique to you isn’t unique at all. Others have felt it too, maybe even more deeply.
So the question is:
Will you let this pain trap you? Or will you find the courage to rise above it?
That’s why it’s essential to embrace this truth.
Acknowledge the pain. Learn from it. And most importantly, learn to move on quickly.
Because life doesn’t stop for anyone.
These were some bitter truths that are part of life, yet we often struggle to accept them.
If any of these truths resonate with you, let me know in the comments.